Four Months In...

...and we're still happy that we did the whole marriage thing.  Can you tell by the picture?  The occasion for this picture was Game 7 of the 2011 World Series, in which the Cardinals clinched their 11th World Championship.  We were there to see it and it was one of the happiest times of our marriage so far.

Renee is a long-time serious Cardinals fan.  I'm more of a casual fan, but Renee is the sort of fan  that gets tickets to any and all home playoff games the Cardinals play.  She has done this for many years.  When I married her, I married the St. Louis Cardinals.  Thus, we watched A LOT OF BASEBALL during the month of October.  The Cardinals just kept winning and winning and before we knew it, we were buying World Series tickets.

Seriously!  The Cardinals played in the World Series and won it in seven games.  We got engaged a few hours before we saw our first Cardinals spring training game on March 23 and we were together as a married couple at Busch on October 29 when they won it all.  When we watched the All Star Game from our honeymoon suite in Jamaica, how could we have known that the National League's gain of home field advantage via a win of that game would be such a big deal for us a few months later?  In between that beginning, middle, and end, we saw a lot of baseball.  The Cardinals played mostly average baseball this season and left us little hope of seeing them play in the postseason.

Surely you've heard the rest of the story by now.  The Cardinals had no hope of catching the Brewers in the NL Central division and their only hope was to catch the Braves for the wild card spot in the playoffs.  Well, the Braves collapsed, the Cardinals caught fire just at the right time to make up 10 1/2 games and won the wild card on the last day of the regular season.  Renee and I had attended the Cardinals' final home game on a sunny Sunday afternoon when we beat the Cubs in the bottom of the 9th.  I guess we should have sensed that something weird was going to happen but it still seemed unlikely that the Braves would continue to lose and let us in.  Yet, somehow, they did, and we found ourselves playing playoff baseball.

Again, you know the story.  The Cardinals beat the Phillies, Brewers, and Rangers in succession to gain their 11th World Series.  They overcame dominant starting pitching, dangerous power hitters, and periodic mental lapses along the way.  Each series was won in come-from-behind fashion.  Whitey Herzog offered this prophecy in a newspaper story prior to the World Series, "I think the Cardinals will win it all, but it will be a strange, strange Series."  How right he was.  How strange is it for a bullpen to send the wrong relief pitcher into a game?  After that happened to us in game 5 and the Rangers went on to defeat us to take a 3-2 series lead,  I declared the Cardinals dead in the water.  Renee restrained herself from throwing something at me.  How strange is it for a team to come back twice from two strikes down and then win a game on an extra-innings home run hit by a St. Louis native?  Renee and I saw it happen from the bleachers in game 6--we were there.  I in my rally cap as a result of the drunken urgings of people sitting near us.  Game 7--Renee and I were there in the bleachers, again.  It seemed so unreal, but yet, it was.  Allen Craig hauled in that final out and the unbelievable odyssey was complete.  A World Series parade capped a weekend of celebration on October 30, and manager Tony LaRussa retired the next day.  I've never seen a month of baseball like it in my life, and likely never will again.  I missed only two home playoff games, and Renee just missed one but we were together at Busch for all of the others and we made memories that will last a lifetime.

So it's now November and we've resumed our previously-scheduled lives, already in progress.  During Renee's annual family fish fry on October 29, we signed a contract with her cousin and his son to remodel the full bathroom in our house.  Suffice it to say, it needed it.  It's not been too much of a hassle to live with and it will be done by the end of this week.  We've enjoyed the process of choosing new colors and fixtures together.  We expect the end result to be quite pleasing.

A Month Later - Honeymoon and Post-Wedding Life Together...

Renee and I decided not to leave for our honeymoon on our wedding night. Who wants to rush around before the wedding trying to figure out how to pack for a week of vacation?  Rather, we stayed at a local hotel and came home the day after to open presents and pack our suitcases.  My parents had taken Chili-dog home with them after the wedding so we got to spend a nice dog-free day in the house by ourselves. 

(must pause here and extend a big thanks to my parents for taking care of Chili-dog while we were gone.   She had managed to cut her leg a week prior so she was wearing a cone collar while it healed.  It couldn't have been easy putting up with that!)

Our honeymoon destination was the all-inclusive Couples Sans Souci resort near Ocho Rios, Jamaica.  We flew down on a series of Delta jets the Monday after the wedding.  We had a very relaxing week there.  Our accommodations were wonderful, the food was excellent, and the beach was very beachy.   (traveler's tip - if you want ice-cold drinks like you are used to consuming in the USA, you MUST ask for a glass of ice with your drink - they will not serve it ice-cold.  It's a cultural thing.)  We enjoyed a free couples massage, a ziplining trip, and a trip to Dunn's River Falls--think Johnson's Shut-Ins on steroids.   Aside from that, we spent a lot of time in the water, both ocean and freshwater pools.  The resort itself was large and beautifully landscaped with lots of Mediterranean-like stone walls and walking paths.  We never felt crowded, however.   The resort was adults-only and we never had to fight for beach chairs or rafts.  We would definitely return in a heartbeat!

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So, post-wedding life.

It's been an interesting month as Renee and I have begun the process of figuring out life together.  We're fond of saying that we have the maturity as an older couple that a really young couple likely wouldn't have had, but we also have the challenge of combining our lives after 22 years of collective singleness.  Included in that is learning new rhythms of living, new ways of doing things.  It's been mostly smooth, with a few speed bumps and potholes along the way.  Some old habits of singleness have been hard to break.  We communicate really well, fortunately and are taking care to pray together as often as we can.  It's been a real blessing having Renee off from school since we've been married.  She has had lots of time to make my house into our home.  Things such as curtains and throw pillows have appeared in our bedroom and the guest bedroom, for example.  Both rooms now look like true bedrooms rather than just rooms with beds and furniture.  And it's been that way throughout the house.  I am so thankful that I have a wife with a good eye for style!  She returns to school this week so we'll soon find out how life goes with both of us working.

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To sum up - our wedding, reception and honeymoon went as well or better than we could've hoped.  We're an "us" now, living life together and looking forward with faith to the future.

A Month Later - Post-Ceremony and Reception...

Immediately following the ceremony, Renee and I adjourned to the activity center of the church.  Our "Quest" worship service is held there and it's the place we think of as our worship home.  We thought it fitting that to have some pictures there in front of the stone facing of the room's fake fireplace.  Our photographer (Lisa Jenkins of St. Louis Color Photography and LJ Photography) did a fabulous job of capturing our day, with the help of her assistant Debbie and a second photographer Rebecca(?).  She hustled us through the requisite family portraits in the main sanctuary shortly thereafter and soon we were en route to Old Hickory Golf Club for the reception.

(I must pause and mention that this is where I was so happy that I'd pulled the trigger on a new black Kia Sorento a few weeks earlier.  Didn't really want to ferry my new bride around in a beat-up Mazda6 sedan.  Thanks again, Zeiser Kia!)

Renee and I arrived at Old Hickory a little later than we'd planned, but we were met by a club official who had a golf cart waiting to taxi us up to the front door of the clubhouse.  I helped Renee into the cart, then I hopped behind the wheel and took off.  We walked inside the clubhouse and were met by our DJ, Jimmy "A Rockin' DJ" Hussey.  We'd never met him prior to the reception so we were a bit taken aback.  DJ procurement was completely my responsibility and I'd only had telephone conversations with him.  He got the wedding party lined up and then cued up the wedding reception standard, "Celebration" by Kool and the Gang.  As the music pulsed, the wedding party was introduced pair by pair, then Renee and I entered the room to wild cheers and applause.  I couldn't help but pump my fist a couple of times as I lived the moment I'd been waiting for.

The reception pretty much flew by.  Renee's uncle Ed Smith prayed, then everyone ate lunch and cake.  Renee and I danced our first dance to Karrin Allyson's ravishing rendition of "Say It (Over and Over Again)"  I believe her version of this standard to be the definitive one and it was the perfect song to dance to.  Jimmy's slogan is "your music, your way" and he delivered just what I wanted.  I provided him a list of my favorite love songs and he picked and chose as he saw fit while drawing from his own library.  I highly recommend him.  Our flower girls and ring bearers found much joy in moving their little bodies to the music as Renee and I greeted our guests.  Time constraints prevented us from greeting everyone but we trust everyone had a good time.

I splurged on a room at the Four Seasons hotel on the riverfront for our wedding night.  It was a bit pricey, but definitely worth it.  We had a deluxe room with a great view of the Arch and St. Louis skyline.

A Month Later - The Ceremony...

I've been married a month now and it's pretty certain that Renee and I will be staying married for a good long while so I think I can safely deliver a bit of post-wedding reportage...

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hardly seems possible, that over 4 weeks have passed since Renee and I stood before our God, family, and friends and said our vows.  The days since have been some of the most alternately exhilarating, relaxing, and overall life-changing that I've ever lived.

I gave up my single life forever at high noon on July 9 at First Evangelical Free Church.  It's the church where I've attended since June of 2001.  Renee began attending there late in 2007.  I don't remember speaking to her until we met at a friend's Super Bowl party in early 2008.  We'd met briefly at a mutual friend's wedding in 1998, but never met again afterwards.  Over time, in God's time, actually, we became friends and then, best friends, and then, husband and wife.  Our pastor Kevin Hughes performed the ceremony.  There was no one else who could've done it for us.  He pastors the "Quest" casual/contemporary worship service at FEFC that Renee and I attend.  We've grown to love him as a trusted pastor/teacher/counselor/all around good guy.  I wanted my former pastor Mike "if you boast, you roast" Goodwin to offer a welcome and opening prayer but he was unavailable the weekend of our ceremony.

Our wedding party came together nicely.  Renee chose her sister as her matron of honor and I chose my brother as best man.  My groomsmen were a couple of old friends and Renee's brother Rob.  She chose 3 of her closest friends as bridesmaids and her good friend Melody as her personal attendant.  We had a suitable contingent of adorable nieces and nephews to serve as flower girls and ring bearers.  Renee's college friend Paula provided piano music and our friends Kim and Luke were our singer/guitarist combo for the ceremony.   Our friend Ben is a video guru by trade so we asked him to film the ceremony, using what I thought would be my dinky Sony Handycam video camera.  To our surprise, he showed up with 2 professional-grade cameras and set one in the baptistry and one in the balcony.  To say we are grateful to him would be an understatement.

So, was I nervous?  I really wasn't, on the day of the ceremony.  A man's wedding day is obviously one of the most significant days of his life but I don't think I let that overwhelm me.  I was so confident in my heart that I had made the right decision to marry Renee that I honestly wasn't nervous.  At the rehearsal the night before, I did break down when I tried to introduce my groomsmen and again when I tried to thank some people at the dinner afterward.  I was initially embarrassed but was later encouraged by others' assertion that I was only expressing my true heart at those times.  The ceremony went off without a hitch.  There was the potential for significant hitch-age with the aforementioned flower girls and ring bearers.   Happily, they all proceeded down the aisle voluntarily and adorably.  I must also give a shout-out to our amazing wedding planner Kelli McGill who coordinated everything wonderfully.  I will always be grateful to her for going along with Renee's plan to give the church's gaudy brass candelabras a much-needed spray paint makeover so we could use them.

We included two songs, Phil Keaggy's beautiful wedding song "Here and Now" and the popular praise song "God Of Our Yesterdays."  The former I have known about for many years and knew it had to be in my wedding someday.  The latter is a favorite of Renee's that was played as we lit the unity candle.  We asked Pastor Kevin to speak from Ephesians 3:14-21, the prayer of the apostle Paul for the Ephesian church.  It's a favorite text of mine that I thought would clearly communicate our desire for our marriage and deliver the gospel message to our guests.  He delivered it beautifully.   I wore a lapel microphone for the first time in my life so our guests could hear Renee and I clearly.

And then, in a flash, it was over.  Pastor Kevin pronounced us husband and wife, then uttered his signature wedding phrase, "John, she's all yours, bro.  You can can kiss your bride"  I did so happily and that sealed the deal.  We were officially Mr. and Mrs. John Matlock!

One Month On...

It's been one month now.

Would I do it again?

You betcha...

Married...

(photo courtesy of my mom)

Yeah, we went and did it.  Renee and I were married at First Evangelical Free Church at high noon on July 9.  The rehearsal, wedding, reception, and honeymoon were one big grand slam home run.  Our many months of planning and praying culminated in so much wonderfulness!  Everything went just as well or better than we could have hoped.  We have returned from  our honeymoon and are now settling into married life.

(oh, and I have changed the title of this blog accordingly)

On My Wedding Day...

 They say that falling in love is wonderful, so wonderful...

Ch-Ch-Changes...

....and lots of 'em.  That's been my life lately.  Renee and I are less than four weeks(!) from getting married; our old, single lives are dying away and our new, married life is beginning to take shape.  Witness:

- it all started 2 months ago when I switched my cell-phone provider to Verizon after 14 years with AT&T.  Verizon is Renee's carrier and she'd just started a new contract.  I needed a new phone and contract and, besides, her mom is on her plan.  Not leaving my future mom-in-law out in the cold.  No.

- my old side-by-side refrigerator was replaced last Friday by a monster black french-door bottom-freezer model.  The old one was, um, white in a kitchen full of otherwise black appliances.  The new fridge made sense also because Renee loves to cook and does it very well, which means she needs lots of room for things that I never previously needed in my fridge.  Me being a bachelor and all.

- I now have a DVR, which I never cared to pay for until Renee opened my eyes to the wonder of it all!  Well, actually, she opened my eyes to the soaps she likes to DVR and would want to continue DVRing after we're married!

- I'm now sleeping on her pillow-top mattress after we moved it to my house with most of the rest of her things yesterday.  We compromised by keeping my box springs on the bed.

- I pulled the trigger on a new 2012 Kia Sorento late last Saturday afternoon.  My faithful Mazda6 sedan is 8 years and 148,000 miles old.  It has reached the end of its useful-to-me life.  For example, a bad hub bearing in the left front wheel has made for an embarrassingly loud hum at highway speed.  If you're in the market for a new ride, check out the Sorento and if you like what you see, I recommend buying from Zeiser Kia in St. Peters, MO.  I have had a great experience with them.  Their internet sales manager got me what I wanted for a fair price and I accepted her offer via cell phone while preparing to mow my grass.  No haggling at the dealership, just a few e-mails and phone conversations.

- My old family room furniture has been replaced by Renee's couch and loveseat.  They match the color of my family room much better than my red and plaid chair and sofa.  I can't wait to see what Renee does to liven up the spartan-ish interior of my/our home.

- Renee has been honored with three bridal showers so far and now my house has a lot more "stuff" than I'm used to having around.  It's been great to see her come home with all the gifts that people have bought for us.

So those are just a few of the changes.  I'm rolling with them--not getting tense or uptight that things aren't what they used to be for me.  I'm blowing up my old life to make a new life with a beautiful woman who is simultaneously blowing up her old life.  This is entirely biblical.  The prophet Isaiah spoke of it this way:

“Forget the former things;
   do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing!
   Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? 

Now, he was speaking of God as it related to the Israelites of his time but I see a parallel to Renee and me.  For one, that passage is one of her very favorites and for another, it speaks to our relationship.  The two of us can't expect to hold on to our old way of doing things after we're married.  We have to be open to new rhythms of life, new patterns of living, new habits, new schedules.  This is where the "love chapter" of 1 Corinthians gets put into practice.  I have also received valuable insight and wisdom about all of this from the Christian counselor that I see regularly.  (Thanks to my bro and sis-in-law for pushing me to start that.  It's been a real game-changer in my life.)

If you're reading this and prayer is something you do, please include Renee and me in your prayers.  We're heading into the homestretch of the wedding planning and future-life-planning so the more prayers sent our way, the better.  We promise to pray for all of you!

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On Turning 37...

I turned 36 a year and a day ago.  If you'd have told me on that day that a year later I'd be engaged to marry someone and even wearing a Rockwood Summit t-shirt on the following year's birthday, I'd have labeled you "crazy."  Now, the proper Christian viewed-through-the-eyes-of-faith response to that prediction is "well, anything's possible with God!"  But a year ago, I couldn't have seen my life being where it is now.  Last year, I woke up on my birthday sick with a sudden sinus attack.  I determined to not let that get me down and attempted to conquer a new bike trail that went straight up and left me feeling worse for trying.  Later that day, I watched, alone, the Cardinals suffer through a 20-inning loss to the Mets on TV.  Notice all the "I's" in the preceding statements.

This year, I woke up feeling great and picked up my beautiful bride-to-be Renee and we headed off to church to worship together.  Afterward, we joined a group of friends for a delicious brunch.   We later joined my parents for a relaxing and delicious dinner at Sam's Steakhouse.  Notice that the preceding statements all included the word "we."

Life is definitely better lived with a lot of "we," I think.

Ode To A Phone...

O, Samsung A707 "Sync" - you came into my life in the Fall of 2007 on a Saturday.  Chili-dog rather rudely chewed up your predecessor LG phone and I had to replace it quickly.  You were a good phone, a phone for all seasons.  You were the phone that I used to initiate text messaging with the lovely Renee Simms and the one I used to inform friends and family when we got engaged recently.  Alas, you began to show your age a few months ago when you suddenly refused to charge your battery.  If I'd not had an identical phone around to use as a charger (only its screen was broken) I'd have traded you in.

Over the weekend, I officially defected from AT&T Wireless.  I was running without a contract and with a need for a new phone.  Renee is a Verizon Wireless customer who started a new contract with a new phone last Fall.  My next move was obvious.  Making her pay an early-termination fee for her contract to move to AT&T might have resulted in an early-termination of our engagement!  So, I am now a Verizon customer on the family share plan with her and her mom.  And I am now the owner of an LG Ally Android smartphone.  Life is indeed good.

This Is Really Happening...

The ring on that finger belongs to one Renee Simms.  I presented it to her while on one knee on the beach at Juno Beach Park in Juno Beach, Florida.  Said ring was presented while I proposed marriage to one Renee Simms.  The same Renee Simms that I've been dating for nearly 9 months and whom I'm unashamedly, madly in love with.  The proposal went down during our spring break vacation last week.

Back in January, when it was reallyreallycold, Renee said one night, "wanna go to spring training?"  I thought that sounded like fun, so we found some flights on Southwest Airlines during her spring break from school and booked our trip for March 22-25!  I had been to Cardinals spring training exactly once, with my dad back in 1998.  Little did I know back in January how memorable this spring training trip would turn out to be.  

First, a little back story....

Renee and I knew by the middle of February that we wanted to get married.  (Okay, truth be told, Renee knew as far back as last October, she says.)  Our feelings for each other were obvious and we also felt that God had confirmed our future was with each other.  We also knew that if we wanted to be married before she had to return to school in August, we'd better get in gear and start planning. Church and reception venue got nailed down in short order, and we began looking at rings.  She and I made trips to several local jewelers so I could get a pretty good idea of what she wanted.  I'm SO GLAD we did that.  Guys, you DO NOT want to mess up the ring, trust me on this.  The ring was purchased by early March and I began waiting for the opportune to make my proposal.  Sadly, our schedules got busy with this, that, and the other and we didn't get much time alone until it was time to jet off to sunny Florida on Tuesday, March 22.

Now, on with the real story...

Wait, a beach!  Yeah, Florida has lots of those!   What a romantic place to pop the question of all questions for single ladies!  Sometime before we left, I nonchalantly mentioned that we should take a romantic walk on the beach at sunset.  Maybe even on our first night?

(I didn't sleep well the night before our departure, so I was feeling under the weather during our flights, sadly.  Seriously.  Mini-migraine happened as we were approaching Tampa to catch our connecting flight to Ft. Lauderdale.  Don't ask me about our hour in Tampa.  Couldn't tell you.)

I caught a cat nap en route to Ft. Lauderdale so I felt functionally better as we arrived.  After we drove up to our hotel near Jupiter, we settled in and tried to figure out where to eat.  Long story short, local seafood restaurant.  Massively long wait to eat, massively long wait for food, after dark when we were finished.  No beach that night.  Bummer.  Ring was in my pocket--my baggy-pocket Polo jeans that I packed specifically for the purpose of carrying the ring unobtrusively.  We headed back to our hotel to call it a night.

Next morning (Wednesday), I felt 100% better and after breakfast, Renee suggested we hit the beach before our Cardinals game in Jupiter in the afternoon.  "That sounds like fun," I agreed.  (I know what you may be thinking, but she totally DID NOT suspect what I was going to do.  She had a FEELING it might happen but not that morning.)  I grabbed the ring box out of my backpack and slipped it into my pocket. (I wore different shorts than the night before, but luckily it wasn't obvious what was there)  We decided to just head east until we found a beach.  U.S. Highway 1 wasn't too far away and we soon spotted beach through thick roadside hedges.  Juno Beach Park appeared before too long so we parked and headed across the road to get some sand between our toes.

Sorry folks, but I must withhold the most intimate details of the proposal.   Some things are just too personal to be shared with the world.  Suffice it to say, it did involve me descending to one knee in the sand (I have the picture to prove it!) presenting the ring and popping the question.  She accepted, of course!  We spent the remainder of our time walking the beach and asking random Floridian beachcombers to take our picture together.   Our friends and family were notified shortly thereafter, and most importantly, we broadcast the news to Facebook late that evening (sarcasm intended).

The day was already perfect, but the Cardinals extended it by beating the Mets later that afternoon.  The game was great and the weather was perfect.  Later that evening, we got dressed up in our Sunday best and drove over to Jetty's, a highly-recommended fine-dining seafood restaurant in Jupiter.  Our experience this evening was much better than the previous evening's.  We were seated right away at an outdoor table that overlooked the intracoastal waterway.  The food was delicious!  After dinner, we relaxed on the pier behind the restaurant.  Our perfect day was complete.

(One great thing about getting engaged is that people don't mind taking your picture.  We asked numerous random Floridians to snap our photo and once we mentioned the word "engaged," they were more than happy to oblige.  One such person was the evening front desk clerk at our hotel, a sweet young lady by the name of Erika Haslup.  She was naturally thrilled for us when we enlisted her for a photo and explained our engagement.  The next evening, we returned to our suite from an evening beach walk to find a sweet treat of strawberries drizzled in chocolate and vanilla  icing accompanied by a bottle of wine chilling on ice.  She left a sweet note expressing her happiness for us.  We thanked her profusely but politely returned the wine, as neither of us drink.)

We took in one more game the next day; Cardinals at Mets in Port St. Lucie, about 40 minutes north of Jupiter.   The Cardinals didn't fare well at all, losing 16-3.  The drive was easy and the weather was again perfect so we didn't think it was a wasted day at all.  Another beach walk after our evening meal completed our trip.

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So, a week later, "this is really happening."  That's come to be our unofficial catchphrase.  I am really helping to plan a wedding, OUR wedding.  A wedding to the woman who was set aside just for me by God.  Sure, I could be really blue and regretful about the fact that I could have been doing this 10 years ago, but no.  I will not.  God's timing is the best of all times. so says Bach in one of his famous oratorios.  (I know it came from Scripture but I can't remember where!)  I wouldn't have wanted to be married to me 10 years ago.  The John of this day and age is in a much better place, personally, spiritually, and emotionally.  The John of this day and age will absolutely be a better husband than the John of 10 years ago (or even a year ago, for that matter.)  I've had to make some pretty giant leaps of faith during the course of our relationship; God has proven himself to me during each and every one of them.  I am happier doing life with Renee than I ever would have been going it alone.  That much I know for sure.

This is really happening.  To me.  To her.  To us.

Incomplete Without You - Swing Out Sister...

I am absolutely, completely, unashamedly digging this video right now. It is just so aurally and visually thrilling to me! They recently released this very rich, jazzy version of one of their older songs.  The bridge section at the 3:12 mark gives me chills every time.

(Not So) Epic Snowstorm 2011...

...the monster snowstorm has come and gone here in the St. Louis area....the main body of it tracked well to our west and a pesky wedge of warm air at 5000 feet turned our snow into sleet before it hit the ground.  My yard has about 2 inches of pure sleet with the same amount of snow on top of it.  The warning cries of a massive ice storm followed by massive snow storm started over the weekend so the populace was sufficiently alerted to the impending doom.  Freezing rain fell intermittently on Monday which glazed over parking lots and trees.  Monday night, you'd have thought it was Christmas eve, as nearly every business near my house closed up early.  I ended up taking a snow day from work on Tuesday, the first vacation day due to snow that I remember taking in my 13 years at the P-D.  The forecasters swore up and down that a blizzard was a-comin' Tuesday afternoon so with thoughts of a stranded me and a home-alone dog in mind, I made the call to stay in.  It would have been nice to give my car's brand new tires a "spin" in the snow/sleet

As it turned out, there was not much to fear.  I waited anxiously for the predicted blizzard but she didn't come.  I did prepare for whatever might come by purchasing a big-boy MAG flashlight and fresh batteries for my Sony iPod Boombox®.  Seriously, folks...the MAG flashlight I bought has a handle that's at least a foot long.  Useful for administering beat-downs on anything that might try to attack me in the dark, I suppose.

I spent the day shredding old credit card bills and cleaning out several boxes of stuff in my basement.  There was a lot of stuff from my college days that I was keeping for no reason other than I am an incurable pack-rat.  It was strangely therapeutic, remembering the past and letting go of memories good and bad.

Back to work today, no problems on the roads.

Lately...

flog me at will, dear readers.  I've been terrible at keeping up this little space.  Once again I find myself composing a 'catch-up' piece such as the one below:

- enjoyed the just-past (passed?) Christmas season immensely.  It was everything I hoped it would be.  Our little corner of the world got snow on Christmas eve, just in time for a white Christmas just like the ones you used to know.  Renee and her mom came to Christmas dinner at my house and there's no place I'd rather they'd have been.  I think I caught a glimpse of my Christmas future on that day.  Let's just leave it at that...

- one my (our) favorite Christmas gifts came from my bro/sis-in-law in the form of a gift card to Mosaic Modern Fusion restaurant.  Mosaic serves up food tapas-style from a chic streetside space near 10th and Washington in downtown St. Louis.  Last Saturday marked 6 months of dating for Renee and I so we celebrated by heading up there to celebrate.  I particularly enjoyed the lobster bisque and petite beef tenderloin.  Afterward, we caught Erin Bode in concert over at Joe Buck's Showroom.  Erin and her trio served up a 90-minute set of songs from 3 of their 4 CDs.  It was worth it just to see her pianist play a melodica on some of the tunes.  A melodica!

- by the way, check out my new profile picture off to the right....was just taken last evening at a birthday party for our friend Courtney...

- looking forward to getting down to Florida with Renee at the end of March to take in a couple of Cardinals spring training games.  I haven't been since I went with my dad way back in 1998.  This is our our hope as we slog through these cold.and cloudy days of January

- Operation 'house exterior renovation project' finally is finished.  The house looks wonderful and I'll get some pictures up in this space once I remember to take some on a nice sunny day soon!